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Building Trust and Confidence With Your Spooky Horse

Have you ever been in a situation where your horse was spooked by something seemingly insignificant? Those little moments can have a significant impact on their overall behavior and performance. It’s not uncommon for horses to react strongly to things we might consider trivial. In this article, we’ll delve into a real-life scenario where a horse’s initial fear of something small turned into an opportunity to build trust and confidence.

The Spooky Horse

Imagine a rider working with a horse in an open area. Everything seems fine until the horse’s attention is drawn to what appears to be a harmless spot on the ground. The horse spooks, reacting to something that seems trivial to us. The rider’s response, though, is what sets the stage for a valuable lesson in trust and confidence building.

Taking Control of the Situation

In the face of the horse’s sudden spook, the rider should remain calm and focused. Instead of letting the horse stop and dwell on the fear, the rider should make a pivotal decision: keep the horse’s feet moving. This simple action is a key factor in maintaining control over the situation. By keeping the horse in motion, the rider retains the ability to dictate the horse’s direction and reactions.

Consistency is Key

As the rider continues to work with the horse, they make sure not to let the horse stop near the spooky spot. This consistent approach sends a clear message to the horse: the rider is in charge and knows what’s best for the horse. The rider’s emphasis on forward movement communicates that there’s no reason to be afraid and that the rider’s guidance is to be trusted.

Redirecting Fear into Learning

Interestingly, the rider turns what could have been a frustrating situation into a teaching opportunity. The horse’s fear becomes a chance to work on building trust and confidence. Rather than avoiding the scary spot, they intentionally guide the horse back close to it. This might seem counterintuitive, but it’s a critical strategy.

Trust Through Action

By guiding the horse back near the source of fear, the rider demonstrates that they believe the horse can handle the situation. This action reinforces the message that the rider’s decisions are in the horse’s best interest.

Developing a Horse That Trusts You

In the course of the training session, the horse gradually learns to trust the rider’s judgment. Instead of just looking at the scary object, the rider focuses on keeping the horse moving forward. This action sends a powerful message: “I’ve got your back, and I won’t let anything harm you.”

The Bigger Picture

This concept extends beyond the specific scenario. A horse that trusts its rider’s decisions becomes a more reliable partner. Whether it’s working on a ranch, navigating through a crowd, or encountering new objects, the horse is more likely to follow the rider’s lead without hesitation.

Lessons from a Spooky Spot

The rider’s approach to handling a seemingly insignificant spooky spot teaches us valuable lessons:

Keep Moving: When faced with spookiness, don’t let your horse stop. Maintain control by keeping their feet moving.

Be Consistent: Your actions should consistently convey that you’re in charge and make good decisions.

Turn Fear into Trust: Use scary moments as opportunities to build trust. Show your horse that your guidance is reliable and worth following.

Foster Confidence: Focus on forward movement to encourage your horse’s confidence. This will help them realize that they can handle whatever comes their way.

Long-Term Benefits: Building trust pays off in the long run. A horse that trusts its rider becomes more dependable and confident in various situations.

Remember, it’s the little things that count. The way you handle small challenges can make a significant difference in your horse’s overall behavior and performance. So, the next time your horse spooks at something minor, seize the chance to build trust and confidence. Your horse will thank you for it, and your partnership will flourish as a result.

If your horse is doing some of the things I talked about in this blog and you would like to watch a video of me using this technique to work through a spook, you might be interested in watching, Working a Spooky Horse. If you are interested in the ways to avoid common owner created issues, then you would want to read the blog, Avoiding Common Owner-Created Issues with Your Horse

All of the valuable information I have learned through 25+ years of horse training and showing I share with you to help you to improve your equestrian knowledge. Thank You.

1 thought on “Building Trust and Confidence With Your Spooky Horse”

  1. It took me awhile to get over coming off of my horse and breaking some ribs. Every little thing was tensing me up and translating to my horse. I did switch to reining saddle and that helps, but it’s me feeling confident when he does spook at something. It’s taking awhile and he is a very watchful, sensitive horse, every little weight shift, squeeze of the rein means a lot to him. I’ve had to learn to ride way more quieter but with confidence

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